性爱之后

1 love. expectation. responsibility2 Gay. Straight被忽悠成Gay3 第一次。

还被抓包4 女Gay5 老变态的自娱自乐和自我解脱6 10? 01? 11? 00? xy7 一个傻+没逻辑的女人(没看太懂)8 又一个弱智的女人 --> 原来是装傻的 哈哈

　Love is not negotiable. Love is a guessing game. And that's the beauty of it. There's no guarantees. It's like, diving into a pool of water without knowing if it's shallow or deep. And sure yeah, if it's shallow you end up hurt and paralyzed from neck down. But if it's deep, you know, it's a leap of faith. It's like, throwing yourself out there without any guarantees. That's what life is about. Ok, you know those carnival games? And you know some of them are really hard to win and some of them are super easy and everyone wins? It's just, that's the difference between love and sex. Sex is the game where everyone wins a little prize and no one goes home a loser, and love is the game that's really hard to win. But if you do, and you get to take home that life-size stuffed rhinoceros. It feels a whole lot better than taking home a shitty little plastic key chain.

"Love is not negotiable.Love is a guessing game,and that’s the beauty of it.There are no guarantees.It’s like diving into a pool of waterwithout knowing if its shallow or deepand sure [yeah] if its shallow you end uphurt and paralyzed from the neck down,but if it's deep…[you know] it's a leap of faith…its like throwing yourself out there withoutany guarantees, and that’s what life’s about.You know those carnival games,you know how some of them are really hard to winand those that are super easy and everyone winswell… that’s the difference between love and sexSex is the game where everyone wins a little prizeand no one goes home a loserand Love is the game that’s really hard to win.but if you do and you get to take home thatlife size stuffed rhinocerosand it feels a whole lot better than takinghome that little shitty plastic key chain."What is love? Who can specify it? Except falling in love at the first sight, does love exist in other forms?Maybe it's when love exists in other forms that it's so difficult for us to admit or to know that we love the other.Sex and love are separable, but sex and love are blended for the people in the stories of this movie. That's why after sex they argued or talked so much. The old couple wanted so much to tell their happy and wild sex they had in their younger days to their children, but they were afraid their children wouldn't be able to accpept it. They weren't sure how their children would react to it. We, as children, date, fool around, have sex behind parents. The experiences may be good, or bad. But whether it's good or bad, we want so much to share them with our parents just as the old couple wanted to share with their children. If it's good, we want to share the happiness with them; if it's bad, we wish we could turn to them for company. But we dare not to tell them. We conceal the experiences we care most from the ones whom we want to confide to most. We and our parents cannot open our hearts to each other. Who should be blamed for this? Why can't we take sex naturally and admit all types of sex? We all hate to be constrained by moral rules and social codes, but they are made by us. Why we human beings torture ourselves?

Part.1SEX 良性而自然地刺激大脑产生使人欢愉的化学物质。

内源性阿片肽。

外源的有 毒品之类，酒精，咖啡，等等等等。

朋友？

分明就是炮友。

可能是由于长期的“合作愉快”，大脑在经历一定量的和谐完美（照顾彼此感受）的SEX之后，不了解爱情本质的男主角开始误以为这就是爱。

所谓的“照顾彼此感受”就是类似对爱付出的行为。

他误以为自己处在恋爱中。

谈话后，1.触摸（特写手按在腚上）——感觉不够。

2.背拥（依赖）3.关灯（照顾）4.“I love you”5.“I love you,too”（这对的确有点什么）Part.2gay part is so Unnatural---jump!Part.3What? Check the 康凳 when Wearing underwear? （貌似不合逻辑）Cosplay...interesting教育方式差异 虽然不是彻底的直接 但至少比东方国家直接多了这种方式 并不否定SEX的自然纯朴本质（好歹多数生物繁衍进化就靠它了）事实上是链条和枷锁扭曲了事物的本质，人的看法，然后采用错误的方式去理解操作，使事情变得复杂，甚至可以说非自然化，失去纯美的阳光的外衣。

（除了穴居生物）Part.4L after G ? jump!（By the way, 穿白色汗衫的女孩是喜剧 《the 70's show》 的jakie。

） Part.5Too old, XP? 应该是Part.1 逆式jump!Part.6Gay again? jump!Part.7Nobody is Complete!防御心理 都害怕成为第一个付出承诺的人 99% VS 99%但对于其他的人 输出功率都低于90% 甚至 50%彼此都有一个100% 的形象，但实质上只是为了刺激对方。

如果爱情走到这步，感觉不来个天雷地火的灾难危机（命运灾难的强制机遇），没人会说真心话了。

Part.8"This is too much for me,too!"西班牙小子的道德观收到毁灭性冲击...

中午看了，有彻肤之感，那短暂的快感过后，会发生争吵，不愿去面对一切的现实，由来的是更多空洞感，那感觉很吓人很害怕。

一部无意中在暴风影音看到的推荐，看了几个小故事，不错的对话。

想起一些年少轻狂经历的种种。

每个人心目中都有深藏的秘密，无法表述，无法倾诉，只有偶尔才在心底发现那些已经泛黄的回忆。

- Love is not negotiable.- Everything is negotiable.- No, not love. Love is a guessing game. And that's the beauty of it. There's no guarantee. It's like, diving into a pool of water without knowing if it's shallow or deep. And sure yeah, if shallow you may end up hurt and paralyze from the neck down. But if it's deep, you know, it's a loop of faith. It's like, throwing yourself out there without any guarantees. Dude, that's what life is about. Ok, you know those carnival games? And you know some of them are really hard to win and some of them are super easy and everyone wins?- Sure.- That's the difference between love and sex. Sex is the game where everyone wins a little prize and no one goes home a loser. And love is the game that it's really hard to win. But if you do, and you get to take home that life-size stuffed rhinoceros. It feels a whole lot better than taking home a cheap plastic key chain.

。。

挺逗的。。。

一对GAY。。

的那个片段。。

people have to face what he or she really is 。。

可是。。

总是不愿意承认。。

最后一对乐死人了。。

好玩。。

Love is not negotiable. Love is a guessing game. And that's the beauty of it. There's no guarantees. It's like, diving into a pool of water without knowing if it's shallow or deep. And sure yeah, if it's shallow you end up hurt and paralyzed from neck down. But if it's deep, you know, it's a leap of faith. It's like, throwing yourself out there without any guarantees. That's what life is about. Ok, you know those carnival games? And you know some of them are really hard to win and some of them are super easy and everyone wins? It's just, that's the difference between love and sex. Sex is the game where everyone wins a little prize and no one goes home a loser, and love is the game that's really hard to win. But if you do, and you get to take home that life-size stuffed rhinoceros. It feels a whole lot better than taking home a shitty little plastic key chain.

2012-09-16电影不长，连上前后字幕都只是80分钟而已，对于一部短篇电影集之类的电影来说，显得单薄了一点。

或许很多抱着色情片来看的人会有些许失望，相比很多大片，这部一点都没有露的电影实在太干净了。

7个片段，7对恋人，异性恋4对，其中包括了1对少年男女的初次和一对老年人对疯狂岁月的回味；男同2对；女同1对。

男同渐渐有了主流的味道，或许是因为有越来越多勇敢的男人出柜。

而女同的两个角色都算是明星，这也让电影的各个片段显得平衡。

3人游戏之类的没有被放上银幕，导演还是有些妥协。

第一段的场景在世界各地每天都在发生，因为有了承诺的味道，让成年人说一句“我爱你”真的好难。

女人的表白“性是一种游戏，参与者都会获得小小的奖励，没有输家；而爱呢，却都很难获胜”，这番理论的正确与否，难以评断，性、爱、婚姻、家庭，这些概念本没有办法划清界限。

少男少女那段，我觉得很温馨，没有比这更好的方式走入新的人生阶段。

母亲的处理方式非常好，女儿让男孩鼓起勇气走过她老妈的面前，把三个人的尴尬轻松化解，这个女孩继承了母亲的超高EQ。

当然，还有几乎所有角色的坦诚，迷惘也罢、下贱也好、肉欲本来就是很自然的事情，不应该被唾弃，不应该成为恩赐，也不应该成为条件。

最后的那一段，西班牙男人拿着手枪（或者称作是打火机）把玩的时候，我已经猜到会是那个结局。

那个以为西班牙是墨西哥一部分的美国姑娘未能免俗，在心仪的男人面前试图掩饰自己的身份，唯一的不坦诚带来了无尽的苦果。